Unguwe wedwa kimi kuleli zwe elinezinto eziningi.
Ngahlangana nomyeni wami ngo-1996. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngokwethulwa komngane, kwahlelwa usuku lokuthandana nomuntu ongaziwa endlini yesihlobo sami. Ngikhumbula ngesikhathi ngithela amanzi kumuntu owayengimethula, indebe yawela phansi ngengozi. Into emangalisayo ukuthi ingilazi ayizange iphuke futhi amanzi awazange achithe ngisho nethonsi. Umkhwekazi wami omdala wathi ngenjabulo: “uphawu oluhle! Lona kumele kube umshado omuhle, futhi nina nobabili nizophumelela nakanjani!” Ngemva kokuzwa lokhu, sonke sinamahloni kancane, kodwa imbewu yothando itshalwe buthule ezinhliziyweni zomunye nomunye.
“Abanye abantu bathi uthando luwukuphela kweminyaka eyikhulu yesizungu, uze uhlangane nomuntu ozokuvikela ngokungaguquki, futhi ngaleso sikhathi sonke isizungu sinethuba lokubuyela emuva.” Ngingomdala emndenini wami. Ngaphandle kwemali eningi engangiyithola ngokuthengisa izingubo, ngangifuna ukonga izindleko zokukhulisa abafowethu ababili abancane ukuze baye ekolishi.
Ngesikhathi umyeni wami uQi esebenza eSongyuan Oilfield, wayethatha ikhefu njalo ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha. Lapho sihlangana futhi, uQi wanginika ipasipoti yakhe yomholo. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngangiqiniseka ukuthi angikhethanga umuntu ongalungile. Ukushada naye kwangenza ngazizwa ngijabule.
Ngaphandle kothando oluningi, umshado wethu waba ngomhlaka-20 kuNhlolanja 1998.
Ngomhlaka-5 kuNtulikazi wonyaka olandelayo, kwazalwa umfana wethu wokuqala uNai Xuan.
Njengoba sobabili sinemisebenzi, kufanele sibuyisele indodana yethu enezinyanga eziyisishiyagalombili emaphandleni kugogo wayo. Ngezinye izikhathi ngemva kosuku olumatasa, ngiyabakhumbula kakhulu abantwana bami uma ngifika ekhaya ebusuku, ngakho-ke ngigibela itekisi bese ngigijima ngibuyele kusihlwa, ngiphethe ukudla okulula kobisi bese ngiphuthuma ngibuye.
Ngenxa yezimo ezimbi ekhaya, kufanele sibalele ukuze sithenge amalahle, futhi ngezinye izikhathi sidinga ngisho nokusika izinkuni ukuze sipheke. Esikhathini esinzima kakhulu, inani lokudla ngesonto liyingcezu ye-tofu. Nsuku zonke kungaba nemifino eluhlaza kanye nengcezu yamalahle, okuyintwasahlobo yethu.
Kwakubanda kakhulu ebusika kangangokuthi mina nendodana yami savuka ngehora lesine ekuseni, umyeni wami wavuka wasikhanyisela isitofu.
Ngonyaka owodwa, lapho indlu eqashiwe idilizwa ngokushesha, mina nendodana yami kwadingeka sithuthe.
Ngaleso sikhathi, kwakungekho selula, futhi uQi wayengenakukwazi ukuxhumana naye emsebenzini. Lapho ebuyela ekhaya, sase sihambile. Sasilangazelela ukubuza ngaphambi kokuba sithole izindaba kumnikazi wesitolo esincane.
UQi wafunga ngasese enhliziyweni yakhe ukuthi uzonika umama wethu nomama ikhaya labo noma kunjalo! Phakathi naleso sikhathi, saqasha izibaya, ama-bungalow namapulangwe, futhi ekugcineni saba nekhaya lethu elincane, futhi isitolo sezingubo sakhula kancane kancane sisuka ekhawunteni saya ezitolo ezine.
Lezo zinsuku ezibuhlungu sezibe yizinkumbulo ezingasoze zalibaleka empilweni.
Impilo ihlala ihambisana nenjabulo nosizi.
Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ukuhlolwa kwami ngokomzimba kwathola ukuthi ngangihlushwa yi-leiomyoma yesibeletho. Ngangiphazanyiswa ukuya esikhathini ngokweqile kanye nobuhlungu obuwela okhalweni lwami kanye nesisu esingezansi.
Udokotela wezifo zabesifazane wendawo wangitshela ukuthi kudingeka ukususwa kwesibeletho ukuze kutholakale ikhambi eliphelele le-leiomyoma.
Lapho sizwa ukuthi i-ultrasound ye-HIFU egxile kakhulu engangenisi umdlavuza ingalondoloza isibeletho futhi kwakungekho nxeba ekuhlinzweni, sabona ithemba futhi.
Ukusebenza koMqondisi uChen Qian kwaba yimpumelelo enkulu kangangokuthi saphuthuma sabuyela edolobheni lakubo ngosuku olulandelayo ngemva kokuphumula isikhashana.
Manje ukuya kwami esikhathini kusobala ukuthi kunciphile, futhi izimpawu zami ezingabonakali zinciphile kakhulu.
Ngenxa yethimba likaDokotela Chen, ngikwazile ukugcina isibeletho futhi ngaqhubeka nokuba ngowesifazane ophelele.
Ngiyabonga, dokotela. Ngiyabonga, sithandwa sami, ngokunakekela kwakho kanye nokuba nawe eminyakeni edlule!
Isikhathi sokuthunyelwe: Mashi-14-2023