Uwena wedwa kimi kulo mhlaba onezixuku eziningi.
Ngahlangana nomyeni wami ngo-1996. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngokwethulwa komngane wami, kwahlelwa usuku lokungaboni emehlweni emzini wesihlobo sami.Ngikhumbula ngesikhathi ngithela amanzi e-introducer, futhi inkomishi yawela phansi ngephutha.okumangalisayo ukuthi ingilazi ayizange iphuke futhi amanzi awazange achithe ngisho neconsi.Udadewabo kadadewabo omdala wathi ngenjabulo: “uphawu oluhle!Lona kufanele kube umshado omuhle, futhi nina nobabili niqinisekile ukuthi nizowenza!” Ngemva kokuzwa lokhu, sonke saba namahloni, kodwa imbewu yothando itshalwe buthule ezinhliziyweni zomunye nomunye.
“Abanye abantu bathi uthando luyiminyaka eyikhulu yesizungu, kuze kube yilapho uhlangana nomuntu oyokuvikela ngokungaguquki, futhi ngaleso sikhathi sonke isizungu sinendlela yokubuya.”Yimina omdala emndenini wami.Ngaphandle kweningi lemali engangiyithola ngokudayisa izingubo, ngangifuna ukonga izindleko zokukhulisa abafowethu ababili abancane ukuze baye ekolishi.
Lapho umyeni wami u-Qi esebenza e-Songyuan Oilfield, wayethatha ikhefu njalo ngemva kwesigamu senyanga.Lapho siphinde sibonana, u-Qi wanginika incwadi yakhe yokungena yomholo.Ngaleso sikhathi, ngangiqinisekile ukuthi ngangingakhethanga umuntu ongafanele.Ukushada naye kwangijabulisa.
Ngaphandle kothando olungako, umshado wethu waba ngo-February 20, 1998.
NgoJulayi 5 wonyaka olandelayo, kwazalwa umfana wethu wokuqala uNai Xuan.
Njengoba sobabili sisebenza, kufanele sibuyisele indodana yethu enezinyanga eziyisishiyagalombili emaphandleni kugogo wayo.Ngezinye izikhathi ngemva kosuku olumatasa, ngibakhumbula ngempela abantwana bami lapho ngifika ekhaya ebusuku, ngakho ngigibela itekisi ngiphinde ngibaleke ngibuye kusihlwa, ngilethe ukudla okulula okuyimpuphu yobisi futhi ngiphuthume ukubuya.
Ngenxa yesimo esingesihle sasekhaya, kufanele sibale ukuze sithenge amalahle, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuze kudingeke sicande izinkuni ukuze sipheke.Esikhathini esinzima kakhulu, inani lokudla ngesonto liyisiqephu se-tofu.Nsuku zonke kungaba nedlanzana lemifino eluhlaza kanye nocezu lwamalahle, okuyintwasahlobo yethu.
Kwakumakhaza kakhulu ebusika kangangokuthi mina nendodana yami savuka ngehora lesine ekuseni, futhi umyeni wami wavuka wasikhanyisela isitofu.
Ngomunye unyaka, lapho indlu eyayiqashiwe ibhidlizwa ngokushesha, mina nendodana yami kwadingeka sithuthe.
Ngaleso sikhathi, umakhalekhukhwini wawungekho, futhi uQi wayengakwazi ukuxhumana naye emsebenzini.Lapho ebuyela lapho ayehlala khona, sasingasekho.Sasimagange ukubuza ngaphambi kokuba sithole izindaba kumnikazi wesitolo esincane.
UQi wafunga ngasese ngenhliziyo ukuthi uzobanika umama wethu nomama ikhaya labo vele!Phakathi naleso sikhathi, saqasha izinqolobane, ama-bungalows namapulangwe, futhi ekugcineni saba nekhaya lethu elincane, futhi isitolo sezingubo sakhula kancane kancane sisuka kwikhawunta saba izitolo ezine.
Lezo zinsuku zosizi seziphenduke izinkumbulo ezingenakulibaleka ekuphileni.
Ukuphila kuhlale kuhambisana nenjabulo nosizi.
Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ukuhlolwa kwami ngokomzimba kwathola ukuthi ngiphethwe i-leiomyoma yesibeletho.Ngaphazanyiswa ukuya esikhathini nobuhlungu bokuwa okhalweni nangaphansi kwesisu.
Udokotela wendawo wezifo zabesifazane wangitshela ukuthi i-hysterectomy yayidingeka ukuze kutholakale ikhambi eliphelele le-leiomyoma.
Lapho sizwa ukuthi i-high-focus non-invasive ultrasound ye-HIFU ingagcina isibeletho futhi lalingekho inxeba ekuhlinzweni, saphinde sabona ithemba.
Ukuhlinzwa komqondisi u-Chen Qian kwaba yimpumelelo kangangokuthi saphuthuma emuva edolobheni lasekhaya ngakusasa ngemva kokuphumula isikhashana.
Manje ukuya kwami esikhathini ngokusobala kunciphile, futhi izimpawu zami zokuzicabangela ziyancipha kakhulu.
Ngibonga ithimba likaDokotela Chen, ngakwazi ukugcina isibeletho futhi ngiqhubeke ngingowesifazane ophelele.
Ngiyabonga dokotela.Ngiyabonga, sithandwa sami, ngokunakekela kwakho kanye nenkampani yakho phakathi neminyaka!
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Mar-14-2023